Many men are nervous to ask out women. They may be afraid of rejection, or looking stupid. Take a chance, and ask a woman out on a date, by following these three tips.
#1 Begin talking to her the way you would talk to a normal person.
Don’t use cheesy pick up lines, to women this is an automatic turn off. Begin to talk to her like you would talk to a normal person who you aren’t interested in going out with. Think about the way you talk to a female coworker, or any other woman you have no interest in. When men come on to women to strong, it will make the woman feel uncomfortable. Begin talking to her about something that is convenient. For example if you are at a coffee house, tell her what your favorite drink is, and tell her that she should try it. The weather, news, and local attractions are also good topics to start a conversation with as well.
#2 Don’t glare at her.
Sure when you see something you like, it is only natural to stare. However there is a difference between glancing at someone, and glaring at someone. You may not think she knows you are starting at her, but trust me she does. If a woman sees you glaring at her from across the room she may think you are strange, and she may begin wondering what your motives are. With the high crime rate these days, and the large amount of sexual predators there are, many women tend to be very cautious. All though you have no ill intentions, if you glare at her she might think you do. This being said, avoid glaring at her from across the room, and wait to stare at her when both of you are talking.
#3 Don’t pop the question too fast.
If you are afraid of rejection don’t pop the question to fast. By talking to her for a little while you will be able to tell if she is interested in you or not. If she is carrying a conversation with you, and is giving you eye contact that means that she is interested. If she is not very talkative, and is not giving you eye contact, she is probably not interested. If you ask her out to fast she may think you are desperate. She may decline going out with you because she feels like she doesn’t know you at all. By talking to her for a little while she will be able to get to know you, and she will feel more comfortable accepting your invitation to go out.