Women and their tricks, and the men who fail the tests. Pay attention guys, if you never listen to what I ever have to say, then this is the time to read on and take some notes. A lot of women are insecure beings, although appearing to be confident and trusting, women always have doubts about a man’s wandering eye. Women are cunning and when they are driven to find out if their man is faithful, nothing stops them from finding out the truth. Here are five things women do to test a man’s fidelity.
Checking Email, Text Messages and Voice mail
The first thing women do to see if their man is potentially cheating is checking their boyfriends or husbands email accounts regularly. But how do they get access to your passwords? Some women will log onto the email sign-in page and will attempt to enter possible passwords. If your woman knows you well, she will think about random words that you might use for a password. Another way women can find out your password is they will watch your fingers enter your password on the keyboard and memorize it. Some women even go out of their way to hire and pay a computer hacker to find out their partner’s email password. So guys make sure to think of a password that is not predictable and make sure to be discreet when your woman is around when entering your password when checking your email.
For women, it is a lot easier to check their man’s cellular phone because it is not locked like an email account. So when guys step away from their cell phones, women who doubt their man’s faithfulness will check text messages to find evidence of philandering ways.
Another cell phone tactic that a lot of women can figure out is your password to get into your voice mail. Women will try to enter many password combinations and a lot are successful at it. I know women who have broken up with their boyfriends after finding incriminating text messages and saved voice mails from other women. Pay attention guys, women are like private detectives, figuring out passwords is just the beginning.
Women who are suspicious of their boyfriend’s faithfulness will search on social networks like Facebook and My Space for their man’s ex-girlfriends. I know women who have contacted ex-girlfriends who are on their man’s friends list on Facebook and My Space and have asked if their boyfriend’s have contacted or have seen their ex-girlfriends lately.
This is quite common practice, as I remember this happening to me when I was studying at York University. This jerk that I was dating named Mr. B.N was dating me while he had a girlfriend. He did not tell me that he had a girlfriend, and one day, I got a phone call from his girlfriend asking me if I was meeting him. She told me that she found my phone number on his cell phone and was doing ‘random checks’ on him. We both discovered that he was, indeed, dating us at the same time and it was all because of her contacting me. Here is a saying that women go by in this situation, “Sisters before misters.”
Creating a Fake Facebook Profile of a Mystery Woman
A lot of women have taken a picture of a pretty girl from the internet and have created a fake Facebook account for the purpose of contacting their man under their alias.
The first message will usually say that she was browsing through Facebook and saw his profile and was intrigued by him. Usually, the first message will be friendly and will have some light flirting sentences like, “You don’t know me and I know this sounds crazy, but when I saw your profile I just had to send you this message to say hello. I hope we can be friends.”
Usually, if the guy is flattered he will write back to this mystery woman wanting to know more about her. But do not be fooled, this mystery woman is, in fact, your very own girlfriend disguised under a fake profile and will be pleased to correspond with you further. If the flirtation between messages becomes more serious, the guy might ask to meet her in person, and that’s when you are doomed. Your girlfriend will then have evidence against you that are, in fact, going to cheat on her with this fake Facebook friend. So be careful who you add as a friend on Facebook because you never know it could be your girlfriend trying to test your fidelity.
Hiring a Call Girl or Escort
You think this stuff only happens in the movies? Well think again because in reality, a lot of women have hired call girls or escorts to try to sleep with their boyfriends. This is when the suspicion of a cheating partner is on high alert and these women are desperate to know if their man will cheat on them if they are not around. Let me warn you that this is very dangerous, because paying a prostitute to tempt your partner to have sex is the ultimate betrayal. For one, if your man sleeps with the hooker, it shows that he does not really care about you or his relationship. The second reason why this is playing with fire is because if your man does, in fact, have sex with the prostitute, you have no one else to blame but yourself because you paid her to do it. These call girls do not really care if they are breaking up your relationship because it is their job to have sex with any man, so guys, pay attention to random sexy girls who try to sleep with you when you are out alone, it may be a set up from your misses waiting at home.
Installing Hidden Cameras While Going Away on Holiday
I had to include this one because I know a woman who did this to her live-in boyfriend. She was already suspicious of his infidelity for a few months because he was always coming home late and lying to her about his whereabouts. But she needed solid proof that he was cheating on her.
So she rented a spy camera and installed it in their bedroom hidden in a stuffed toy animal and she told her boyfriend that she was going away for the weekend to visit her parents. The camera was recording everything on a tape that she hid in another room and when she came back home after the weekend, she reviewed the tape and found that her boyfriend had sex with another woman in their bedroom. She was shocked at what she discovered, she was hurt and angry, but this was evidence that he was cheating.
When she confronted him about it, he obviously lied, but when she showed him the tape of him having sex with another woman, he was angry that she did not trust him and accused her of setting him up. She broke up with him and told him to move out.
While this incident could be another episode on Cheaters, the point is that once a woman is suspicious, she will go at great lengths to find solid proof of his infidelities.