Women have it planned in advance when they dump a man. It isn’t a quick decision. It is something that we have thought about over and over again. Your actions made it easier for us to dump you. Here are five unique reasons she dumped you.
Momma Boy Destroys Relationship
Mature women do not want to be with someone that is a mommas boy. We don’t like it when you have to go running to your mother about everything in life. You should be old enough to make decisions without consulting her first. We don’t want you anymore if you are a mommas boy. It isn’t healthy for a relationship when you are incapable of making decisions yourself and can’t seem to cut the apron strings. We want a man that knows what he wants without needing to ask his mother for advice.
Video Game Addict
Mature women do not want to come second to a immature guy that puts his video game addiction first in his life. We have no problem throwing a guy out of our life that is a video game addict because it isn’t like there is much too miss. Do you think a computer makes a jealous? No. Its more a of a relief when you are finally gone that we aren’t second to a computer anymore. We would even understand it better if you had an affair with a woman, but it isn’t fair to put us second to a object. We don’t deserve to be neglected or you refuse to eat dinner with us because you are too wrapped up in your video games on the computer.
Women Can’t Look At You The Same Due To Pain You Caused After You Canceled Wedding
Any man that cancels a wedding without telling her to her face is one that we can dump in a heartbeat later on. He broke our heart the first time. We can’t look into his eyes the same way anymore due to the heartache that the man that we were going to marry broke our heart into a million pieces. We could of handled it better if you had sat us down and told us why face to face instead of making us come home to a empty house with all of your stuff gone. You made us look like a fool for trusting you. You told us to trust you then you broke our heart. What do you expect? We aren’t stupid enough to let you screw us over a second time around. Your family will also tell your new girlfriend about all the prior weddings that you’ve canceled too to try to warn her. Don’t worry though since she is usually only notified after you canceled the wedding on that poor girl too.
You Were Abusive
Women remember every time a guy abuses her. It doesn’t matter to what extent it was. We remember all the details of the abuse and don’t forget it no matter how many years it has been. We will tell anyone about you the abuse that you did. Your own mother will find out. She might not know everything, but she does know some of it. We always make sure to let someone in your family know about the abuse so that they make sure to tell your next girlfriend about your abuse tactics towards women.
You Make Us Cry Too Much
Women hate to cry themselves to sleep at night over a guy. We hate it. It destroys us depending upon what it is about. When you start to make us cry too much then we eventually hate it so much that it is easy to dump you in order to get relief. The relief in our life is that you are finally gone so therefore you can’t hurt us anymore. We dump you to further protect our heart from further hurt inflicted upon it by you.
Women only want happiness and love in a relationship. We want you to make us laugh. We want to have wonderful memories with you. We want a healthy relationship that isn’t abusive. We want you to be the man of our dreams so to speak, but we don’t expect you to be perfect.