Worried that your sweetheart is cheating on you? Compare his behavior to the following 6 signs that a man is a player. If you see him in them, you may need to confront him or exit the relationship.
1- His sexual habits change.
Just like you, most men have a certain sexual drive by the time they reach adulthood. If your lover’s suddenly changes or always is up and down, take a second look at him because he may have another partner. Unless he’s stressed out or sick, he should be consistent.
2- You can’t get his number.
He calls you from a pay phone or contacts you through a friend. This is a key sign he’s a player. Your guy is putting a roadblock between you and him because he’s got another lady (or ladies) and wants to control your access to him.
3- His friends are mainly women.
Unless a man is batting for the other team, he normally has more male friends than female. If your boyfriend is just the opposite, beware. All of his relationships aren’t just platonic. A few are probably more and like you think they are the only ones.
4- You can’t account for his time.
Unaccounted for time is a sure sign your significant other is a player. Couples in committed relationships know where each other are most of the time. So, if he’s missing for a few hours here and there, he’s spending time with another woman he cares for.
5- His history with women is sketchy.
Learn from the mistakes of women like Sandra Bullock and Halle Berry. Men who have a past record of many sexual partners often can’t slow down. They are either addicted to sex. Be careful with this type of guy because he’ll cheat and break your heart.
6- He whispers through his phone calls.
People who have nothing to hide don’t have to talk low throughout their phone calls. They can discuss almost anything openly except for classified information relating to business. If your man does this constantly, this is a sign he’s a player, especially when he makes up some weird story afterward to justify his actions.
Hopefully, none of these 6 signs describe any of your guy’s behavior. But, if they do, decide now how you want to handle him. Whether you stay or leave, you should get a clear understanding of your relationship and how you fit into his world.