Marriage is the best thing ever because it represents love and commitment. When a person has a positive effect on you and gives you butterflies in your stomach, you could feel this energetic happiness that bursts out into your smile. You may have visions of being old and wrinkled, still holding hands together, but what if you experience second thoughts before you even got married.
Not everyone will be 100% sure that person is “the one,” and it’s okay to have second thoughts on marriage and still want to spend the rest of your life with that person. But when you know in your heart that you can’t see yourself with nobody else, you should go ahead and tie the knot. Ebony, a newlywed who is happily married suggests that spending a couple nights at a time together before marriage gives a better sense of who that person really is.
There’s a lot to look forward to in marriage and living with a person is not exactly as good as the Huxtables or the Brady Bunch made it look. When you accept a person, you’re accepting their flaws, their children (if they have any), and their lifestyle. Marriage is for better or for worse, and it supposed to be for a lifetime. Not every man is made to be rich, handsome, and packing big, but if they have a good heart, good morals, and they think the world of you, I think he deserves a chance.
Sometimes things don’t always go as planned after marriage. Promises could get broken, personalities can change, lifestyles may change, and so can looks. And he may or may not be successful as you’d like, or may be too successful which causes him to work a lot of hours. It’s the beauty of believing in that person and knowing that you have someone else to share these moments with. If you feel in your heart that you’re ready to get married it is no reason to let fear stop you. A lot of people who’ve been married for a long time will tell you that religion is what kept the marriage going for so many years. The best way to know if you are ready for marriage is to imagine yourself doing these things by yourself, and picture yourself having someone to share these moments with.