Being human as one can have regrets through our lives due to not being perfect being human also seems to mean there is going to be something that will upset you even if it seems small later on when things are said and done. Although as a person that tries to see positive in many things some things that bother me on an occasion are people that are purposely hurtful to others, those that put other people down because of something like their age, health related problems, sex, or whatever it might be, people that seem to be full of themselves, and people who just dismiss someone due to something that has gone on in their past. There are probably a few other things but I have always been a people person and when I see pain in people’s eyes from being hurt on certain things that is what upsets me the most.
I’ve always been a firm believer that you never should judge a person from their past because people can always change and you cannot judge what might have happened at that time. We’ve all come short on things that have happened in our lives. We are not perfect we all have sinned therefore how can we judge how someone has lived without knowing the circumstances? Another thing I’ve always believed in trying to the best of your ability to treat everyone you meet fairly no matter what sort of things that person might have it goes back to the whole how you would like to be treated. I know at times though we might sometimes say a rash thing or a hurtful word when we least mean to or we might take what someone else says wrongly without wanting to. Sometimes we also might read something especially with how much we are into the internet and want to say something to that, which could be than seen as mean or hurtful.
Sometimes holding one’s tongue is not always easy. Sometimes we might say something that isn’t nice or caring. This is where sometimes we have to be the bigger person and realize these things ask that person’s forgiveness, ask God’s in both the times that person forgives and that person doesn’t, and try to do our best to not do it again. We also have to let anything that could upset go as well and realize that whatever is causing it that we live in a fallen world and we all have our rough days it is how we handle it that matters. From how we handle it and give glory to God in the process is what makes the difference.