If your girlfriend told you that she has had a miscarriage, there is a strong possibility that she could be telling the truth. Depending on her own morals, your girlfriend might not even think about lying about such a horrible thing. However, there are many times when girlfriends do lie to their boyfriends about having a miscarriage. Here are some of the signs that your girlfriend may be lying.
Did You Recently Have a Fight or Breakup?
When teenage girls and young women lie about having a miscarriage, it is usually because they are looking for attention from their significant other. If you have recently had a bad fight or if you have broken up, there is a chance that your girlfriend may be lying about having a miscarriage.
Your girlfriend may be trying to make you feel sympathy for what she is going through in hopes of making amends. If she told you that she was pregnant first, she may have been trying to stall the relationship long enough to fix the problems. Once she has lied about being pregnant, she has no choice but to either actually get pregnant or claim that the pregnancy ended in miscarriage.
Was it Even Possible for her to be Pregnant?
In addition to considering whether or not you have fought, it is important to consider if it was possible for her to have been pregnant in the first place. Were you using condoms? If so, did one break recently? Was your girlfriend also on the birth control pill or the birth control shot? While there is a chance that all of these methods of contraception may be ineffective, consider how safe you were being.
Has Your Girlfriend “Miscarried” Before?
This can be tricky, but it is important to think about. On the one hand, women who have had one miscarriage are prone to having another one in the future. On the other hand, there is a chance that she may have lied to you about it more than once. Speaking of lying…
Does Your Girlfriend Lie on a Regular Basis?
If your girlfriend lies about other things, she may be capable of lying about miscarriage. Has she lied to you in the past? Even if she hasn’t told you, have you suspected it before? Does your girlfriend also lie to other people in her life, like her friends and family?
Ultimately, there is no way to know for sure whether or not your girlfriend has had a miscarriage. If you suspect that she could be lying, however, it is important to reevaluate your relationship. Do you want to stay with someone who you don’t trust? While we often want to believe that people we are close to won’t lie to us, it is not at all uncommon for girlfriends to lie about losing a baby to keep their boyfriends around.