The dating world is exhausting and it takes a lot of effort. If you really want a man in your life, don’t give up. While it is true that sometimes people find the man of their dreams while not actively searching, the odds are not in your favor if this is your dating game plan. The most significant thing you can do to increase your chances of finding a man are to GET OUT THERE.
#1 Rule to Find Mr. Right
The #1 rule of dating is to put yourself out there. You will never find a man if you are sitting at home watching TV. You just won’t. You need to put yourself out there. Yes, it is uncomfortable, it can feel strange, and you may feel vulnerable… but it is the surest way to increase your chances of finding the right man.
Put yourself out there and try new things. Join groups, try sports, go to the mall. Try different things until you find something that you really like to do, and then keep doing it.
Do not choose activities based on how many men attend the group. Choose activities that you like, that help define who you are as a person. Even if a group is all woman, you will still increase your chances of finding a man.
How is that? Well, the women in the group have brothers, and perhaps guy friends, that may be a good fit for you. Also, there is nothing more attractive to men than a confident woman who knows who she is. A good group or activity helps you become more confident and happy, and this will increase how attractive you are to men.
I have been to too many groups that turned out to be duds, waste my time, or were misleading as to what the group actually did. If you find yourself in one of these groups or activities, leave. Who cares, you won’t be back. If you have to attend 10 bad groups to find a good one, it is well worth it. With every bad group, you learn valuable lessons that will help you in the future.
Best Places to Find Mr. Right
The two best places to find groups and activities are: Craigslist.org and Meetup.com.
With Craigslist any group can post for free (and hence, they are getting hit by spammers pretty heavily right now). Despite the spam problems in Craigslist, I have found many great sports teams there who were in need of an extra girl to complete their team.
In Meetup.com, groups have to actually pay for the spot. Hence only organized groups with funds are on Meetup.com.
So put yourself out there. You will probably go to groups that waste your time, are misleading, are not a good fit, or make you feel awkward. But the rewards for your efforts will be well worth it.