Really if you think about it this world is very sexual. Many people have no problem going out and looking for quick one night stands. So when you are a person who wants to wait to have sex, how do you survive? Do you give out sex to a person to keep them in a relationship?
There are ways to make sure that you don’t have to give it up to that wrong person. Just say no, if they don’t love you enough to respect that about you, it’s better that you are not with them. Move on to another love and look for a person who is also trying to hold off on sex.
No you don’t necessarily have to find a virgin who has never had sex. But there are even those out there, many people are taking up the fight to remain a virgin until they are married. It’s great for them and if they can do it, they have done a great job of holding off and telling many people no in the past.
So what about those people who expect sex on the first date? Really it’s all up to the people who are dating. You should never let someone tell you different. You are the one who will have those feelings of guilt or the feelings that you did the right thing.
Why is the world so focused on sex really? Has it changed because of technology? Overall the internet is a great thing, but it also bad for people who are trying to remain virgins if they go to the wrong sites that is.
Over all when you are dating it’s up to you when you have sex. But at times giving it out too soon will have a person wondering about you. So try and hold off for at least a few months of dating!