By following these steps you may feel like you are invading your man’s privacy. However if your man is betraying you by cheating on you, don’t you deserve to know? If you are in a relationship with a person, giving your love, and your body to them, don’t you have the right to know if they are betraying you? If your partner’s actions just haven’t been adding up lately, and you suspect that he may be cheating, follow these steps. If it turns out he is cheating, you are better off with out him. If it turns out he is not cheating, you will have peace at mind, and he will never even know you checked up on him.
Step #1 Search his phone
Most of the time when a man is cheating, they don’t let their partner see their phone. When your man isn’t looking, and you find an opportunity, look through it. Look through his text messages and calls. If you see that everything is deleted, this means he is probably trying to hide something. Even if you there is nothing out of the ordinary in his phone, keep in mind, there is a delete button that he could be using. If you look through his phone, and find nothing, this is when you dig a bit deeper. Every cell phone company has a phone bill. It may be mailed to the house, or it may be online. If it is mailed to the house, simply check the mail, and look through it. If it doesn’t come in the mail, then it is online, and it is password protected. If you have been with your man long enough, you may have a few ideas of what his password may be. If you don’t, think of his favorite things, his last name, etc. If you see any numbers that you don’t know, or numbers that seem to show up a lot, confront him about it. If you can’t seem to get a hold of his phone bill, there is an alternative. Believe it or not, there is actually a device called the Cell Phone Spy, which will be very helpful. By hooking up this special device to a cell phone, it allows you to read deleted text messages.
Step #2 Excuses for his late arrivals
Is he late coming home again? Being late once in awhile is fine, but if his late arrivals are an ongoing thing, you should look into it. Next time he comes home late, simply ask him why. He may say it was because of traffic, extra work, etc. Although things do happen that make people late, they don’t constantly happen. You need to verify the reasons he comes up with for coming home late. For example, if he says it was because of traffic, verify it simply by looking online, or on the news, to see if there even was traffic on the route he takes home. With all of the technology we have today, you can practically verify any excuse he comes up with.
Step #3 His time away
If your man is spending time with another woman, then he has to tell you lies about where he is, or where he is going. He may say he has to go to work, run errands, visit his mother, etc. Well, it’s time to surprise him. Next time he leaves, ask him where he is going. For example if he says he is going to Home Depot, drive to Home Depot shortly after he leaves, and look for his car in the parking lot. If he says he has some extra work to do at the office, pretend that you are surprising him, and bring him some lunch. If he is not at the places that he says he is, then it is time to dig a bit deeper. It is time for you and a friend to follow him, in a car that he doesn’t recognize. Although this move may sound off the wall, and something that would happen off of the popular TV show Cheaters, it is something you must do. You may feel that this is invading his privacy, or that it just isn’t right. However, don’t you deserve to know if you are being cheated on, lied to, and betrayed by the man you love? The obvious answer is yes, in order to get answers, sometimes we have to take it to the extreme.
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