It has been said that men are visual. It has been said the men are aroused by site. They possibly like to view the attributes of a woman. That is great. It is even greater if the chemistry is there between a man and woman, but could it be that men need to go further than that? Since we are on this topic, men have you investigated whether your future wife has any common sense? Does your future wife have a vision that includes or excludes you? Is your future wife only concerned about herself? Will you consider her one of your greatest investments by investing time with her? You might want to ask yourself this as you look for your perfect wife. Jeremiah 29:11 Plan for you. God wants to prosper you. God has plans for you. Although every man may not marry, God has said in Genesis 2:17 that it is not good for man to live alone.
2. Cooking and House Cleaning
No, cooking is not everything. Every woman cannot cook. Some woman do not desire to cook. They might prefer to eat out most of the time. Men you need to consider this. In today’s society with the fast pace, all woman do not cook full course meals nor do they care to. Your future wife may need help too. So hopefully your mama taught you to cook, clean house, and be considerate. Keep in mind that your future wife may need and expect you to help her around the house with the children, cooking, and/or cleaning. Did your mother teach you to cook and clean the house? If she didn’t, it is never too late to learn.
Possibly she or you are a hoarder. According to WebMD.com acquiring things is something that hoarders like to do. WebMD.com further states that “hoarding can be seen in those with generalized anxiety disorders.” These are things that you want to consider before saying “I do.” Once married and living under the same roof with a hoarder could prove exasperating.
Men consider whether your future wife might make a good mother. Have you met her mother and father? Sometimes that will tell you a lot about her. Also, most mother and father’s will gladly tell you important bits of information about your future wife that might prove interesting. Remember she might not be perfect, in all aspects, but she might be the perfect wife for you.
When you meet and spend time over a period of time with your future wife, you will know that she is the one. You may even know it before she does. Remember she probably is not even looking for a husband, that is why it is important that you find her.
Possibly you are the type of man that knows in your heart that you do not want to be single for the rest of your life. That is fine knowing this about yourself, but do not be desperate. Develop yourself first and be happy with yourself. Get your education and a “JOB.” 2nd Thessalonians 3:10 . If you do not work, do not expect to eat. Maybe you don’t want to go to college. Not every man does. Possibly learn a skill. Get an honest job. Also, note that according to CNNMoney.com there are 39 jobs where women make more than men. Some of those jobs include sales engineers and legislators. So try not to be intimidated if she makes more money than you, but keep in mind you can always strive for a job that pays better. That is your choice. Once you marry, hopefully, the both of you will not be in competition against one another. Hopefully, you will work together as a team.
Men have you stereotyped your future wife? Have you said, “I only like big thick women.” “I only like women with big legs.” It is okay to know what you like, but be opened to the intellect of your future wife. All of that “38-24-35” measurement of her body will not last forever. You want to find a woman with substance. Consider, “Would she leave you when you lost your job? ” Consider would she run home to her mother the first time that you and her had a big argument? Consider does she get along with your mother and father or her own mother and father? No she does not have to be perfect in these areas, but she will be the perfect wife for you.
Men are you a perfectionist. You want everything perfect, when and where you want it. Is there no room for flexibility? Are you too ridged? Are you looking for a “yes” woman? A woman that agrees with everything you say and do? It is good that you and your future wife can disagree on some things. It is good that you and your future wife can talk and realize that each of your may have different views on different topics or subjects. In today’s society there are woman that own their own houses, businesses, cars, and much more. When you find that perfect wife that you are looking for you need to consider this.
There is no perfect wife, but there is a perfect wife out there for you. She will have her flaws, her quirks, and probably get on your nerve from time to time, but remember LOVE covers a multitude of sins. 1st Peter 4:8