Unfortunately, married couples often forget the power of flirting after a few years. After saying I Do and settling into a routine of housework, career and childcare, this often little time or energy to devote to flirting with each other. While there is nothing wrong with getting to a place of comfort and relaxation with your spouse, taking the time to flirt every now and then can remind you both of why you got together in the first place. Here are some fun ways you can be a little playful and flirty with you husband while he is away at work.
Write on His Facebook Wall. While you will certainly want to keep this message G rated, it can be very fun and beneficial to post a flirtatious message on his wall now and again. Just a few lines about how he is the best husband a girl could ask for, or to thank him for a particular chore or task he did recently will really make his day. He will surely feel loved and appreciated and be more than happy to get home to you at the end of the day.
Slip A Love Note into His Lunch Cooler. If your mate typically brings a lunch to work every day, take a few minutes to tuck a sweet love note into it before he leaves. Recall a particularly enjoyable time you had together recently and let him know that you are looking forward to meeting up again. This special surprise on his mid day break will cause you to be on his mind for the rest of the day.
Text or Email Him During the Day. You should be aware of privacy issues regarding his email and whether cell phone usage is frowned upon before leaving him a flirty message during the work day. If it is perfectly acceptable to contact him with these methods during the time he is at work, take a few minutes to let him know that you are thinking of him. A simple message letting him know that you love him will brighten his day and allow his mind to wander to romantic thoughts of the both of you.
Leave a Romantic Gift in His Car. Slipping a gift into his car that will lead him to feel a bit amorous towards you will definitely put him in the right frame of mind when he arrives home. Think about his normal work day schedule and when would be the most appropriate time to find his special surprise. If he spends much of his driving around clients or business associates, you may not necessarily want him to stumble upon his gift with a car load of people. Try to be creative and clever without setting him up for an embarrassing experience.
Send a Gift to His Workplace. Having a sweet and romantic gift sent to his place of work will surely surprise and delight him. It can be as simple as a handwritten love letter and a box of his favorite candy or dessert or as elaborate as a performer singing him a cute and catchy song. Think about his comfort level regarding public displays of affection and make sure that your surprise does not end up causing him to feel awkward and embarrassed in front of his co workers. The wrong gift can bring you far from a place of romance, while the right one can set the stage for a very enjoyable evening.