Do you wonder if the one you are with is the real ONE? Do you wish that there were some tell tale signs that would answer this question for you? In ways, there are.
First off ask yourself questions like these?
• Is this person on your mind a lot? Do you think about this person when you should be working or when you are with other people?
• How do you feel when you think about this person? Do you feel all warm and fussy inside?
• Do you feel yourself smiling when you think about this person or when you hear his/her name?
• Do you find yourself talking about this person a lot? Do you find yourself centering the conversation back around this person even when the conversation is on something or someone completely different?
• Can you just be with the person for long periods of time doing basically nothing like talking and still enjoy yourself.
• Do you enjoy the physical part of your relationship? Yet, you also enjoy other parts of the relationship just as well.
• Do you find yourself touching this person a lot?
• Does this person feel like a friend as well as a lover or boyfriend/girlfriend?
• Do you get along with this person’s friends and family?
• Do you have many things in common with this person?
• Do you have many shared likes and opinions?
• When you go out on a date with this person, do you usually enjoy the things that he/she wants to do? Do you enjoy the places he/she wants to go?
• Do you both have similar goals for the future?
• Can you see spending the rest of your life with this person and not feeling panicky?
These are the types of questions that can help you decide if yes this person is the ONE or if this is just a person you may just truly like for the moment. Be honest when answering these questions and don’t just answer with what you think is the correct answer, answer by how you feel in your heart and brain.