At this point you have had it with thrifty Joe, and his twelve dollar bank account. You’re tired of only going out to dinner when he has a coupon, and further asks you to leave the tip for the waitress. He gave you jewelry you’d need a NASA sized magnifying glass to see and flowers yanked from your neighbor’s garden. At first it was cute, then you felt sorry for him, but years later you feel sorry for yourself. It’s time to meet money, oops, I mean a man with money. You could do this in person, but it’s a lot easier online, and the selection is grander.
Choosing your on line dating site is crucial. You’ve been through a lot with your previous spend thrift boyfriend, but try to avoid free dating sites.Why would anyone with money, who values a good relationship, choose a free dating site? That’s right, if you want to meet money, you will have to spend some of your own. Treat this like a college research project; take your time and surf the net for a few days. Then choose a site that displays a tasteful home page, with well written tutorials on relationship successes. Once you’ve made your choice, Google it, to see if any adverse information about the site itself pops up. Ask around about it. See if you can meet anyone who has used the site, and what their experiences were. Now, when you sign up, choose the trial period price. This will give you a chance to get around the site a bit, and see if it’s the right one for you. Then once you’ve met some people and become comfortable there, you can buy a longer subscription.
Your profile is the most important piece of this endeavor. It will attract the kind of man you are looking for, if it is well done. The first noticeable item is your photo. Make it high priority, and have professional photos taken for this task. This would be a great opportunity to treat yourself to a makeover, have your hair and nails done, and shop for a new outfit. Keep the wardrobe simple, tasteful, and classy. Take a trip to a top dollar boutique, to visualize what they are selling. Then to your usual store, to reproduce the same outfit at a cheaper price. Although bright colors are used on television, to attract audience attention, loud colors and patterns scream “cheap” and are very distasteful; avoid them. Stick with earth tones or soft colors, that compliment your complexion. It will make you appear to be a natural beauty. Post your favorite photo to your profile.
Now, start the text on your profile description. Keep it simple, use proper grammar, complete sentences, and avoid sarcasm. Do not put your life story online, a man with money is a very busy man; he needs a smooth, easy read, that is not overly time consuming. A few small tips here. If the area you reside in is not middle to upper class, try to use a general area as your location. For instance, if you live in Riverhead, ( a well-known low socio-economic area), use the East End for your location. Get a little creative with the less attractive parts of your life. This probably need not be mentioned, but avoid statements such as “looking for rich sugar daddy”, “looking to meet man with money”; these are gold digger indicators. Instead try, “Looking to share the finer things in life”. The term “share” includes the other person, and makes you seem less self-centered.
Your interests need to be adjusted for this endeavor. Yes, you will need to lie a little. The only thing the truth will get you is a replication of your old boyfriend. Bargain shopping, coupon clipping, babysitting, beer dropping, and pole dancing should not be listed in your activities. Though, the pole dancing may be an asset later in the relationship. You want to seem classy, and well rounded. Activities should include: horse back riding, antique shopping, traveling, interior design, artwork auctions, entertaining, and possibly golfing. You might want to run down to the nearest golf course, in a little golfing outfit, and have your friend take a picture of you teeing off. Then post it to your profile photo album. The more effort you put into this profile, the better your results will be.
At this point let’s assume you have completed your high class profile, and are ready to start intermingling online. Start messaging profiles you find interesting. Meeting people on the site can be informative. You might message a woman who has dated some of the men on the site already. She could save you some bad date experiences. For the most part, Mr. Millionaire will find you. Your job is to search his profile, and decide if he is the caliber you are looking for. Found an interesting, possibly wealthy man online?
When messaging this man keep it about him. Most men are self-centered in nature, and will love talking about themselves endlessly. Let him. You can file your nails while he constantly messages you, about himself. He will have the impression that you are very interested in him as a person. Every now and then throw him another question, about himself. He will love it. The more it’s about him, the happier he will be. Also, try to avoid seeming desperate. Never initiate conversation once the original relationship has started. The last thing you want him to think, is that you have nothing better to do than sit around waiting for him to talk to you. He should believe that you are a woman in high demand, and worth the effort. Avoid questions concerning money in the beginning.
How do you determine if he’s a keeper? When you are asked, “What would be your idea of a perfect first date?”, your answer should be something that costs him a bit of money. Maybe a very expensive restaurant in your area, followed by a carriage ride through the nearest city, then off to a nightcap at a nearby cigar bar. His reaction to this will be informative. If he responds positively, then you know you are on the right track. If he tries to persuade you to take a walk in park, and share a dirty dog and soda, well, this is a fish you’ll need to throw back. Follow these tips, and you are bound to find Daddy Warbuck’s to enjoy the finer things in life with.