Keeping your spouse happy may seem like a large topic and one that is discussed often. But in this instance we want to consider the behaviors that you can do that will either push your spouse away or cause problems that may eventually lead to a divorce or separation.
Because you do things that may cause friction in a relationship you really might want to focus on making those things not happen often. Frequently there is a cause to be jealous in a relationship, or some women may feel they need to be jealous. Even men will have jealousy that can push a lover away quicker than anything.
Jealousy is often something that can be controlled, but you need to work at it. You need to realize that you can trust the person you are with. Obviously if they have cheated on you before this may be a problem, but that is something else that will be discussed later on. Jealousy for no reason is often a problem that can rear up and make a relationship into one that a person will feel trapped.
There are many ways that jealousy from a partner may be displayed. One classic example is anytime you head out to do something you are timed. If you take a bit longer, you are obviously spending time with another person, and they will question or accuse you constantly. Each and every time you go out of the house they will think something is up.
Often times when you work out of the house, you will of course be sleeping with a co-worker. The accusations will often fly many times a day, and make no sense. If this is what you do to your partner, rethink your attitude and change it quickly.
Sure it may not be right but there are people out there if they are accused often enough will do what they are being accused of, do you want to be the reason your spouse says they cheated? No not at all, and jealousy is an evil thing that will cause a person to distance themselves from you.
Therapy may be something that you will need to consider if the problem is bad enough. Not only should you seek marriage counseling together but you may want to get individual counseling too. Working on this problem and making some headway may be the best way to save a marriage that has been suffering under the pressure of constant jealousy.