Life and love and love and life. Do the two go hand in hand? For some the answer is irreverently yes. But for others, yes may not be the right answer. Answers are the oddest of things. You may be thinking and thinking about the answer that you want but it may not be the one that you are really looking for or the one that wants you.
When people tell you to live your life as it’s the only one that you’ve got – well, how do they know? Different religions depict different ideas with life and the soul moving from one being to another. How many lives mite we actually get?
Cats seem to be the lucky ones getting nine, but then this is an old wives tale. But how do we know this tale is a tale? And how do we know that an old wife told it?
How many chances do you really think we get when it comes finding true love? Is love firstly found within and before we can find that person that we are eternally connected to, do we first have to discover our own inner love?
Apparently one day someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it didn’t work with anyone else. Can we bribe that day to come any quicker or is it down to the hand of fate? And what if you get to 90 years old and that day still didn’t arrive? Does it mean that you may have missed that opportunity or is it coming to us in the next life?
Thought – We are only visitors in the body’s that we occupy.
An odd thought when one actually sits down and really thinks about it. Life and death – the only two things that are ever certain. But surly there must more certainty in life than that right?
To me, love is a certainty, but as time goes by and love is still is missing in action, does it mean that one day out of no where it will just pop up like a blinding flash or will life just carry on? People say that when you stop looking for Love it will find you. Who are these people and are they speaking from experience?
It’s a hard one to figure out this whole soul mate thing. Do we all have one person somewhere in the world that is not just looking, but fighting to get to you before it’s too late? What if there was some sort of road block stopping your ‘other half’ getting to you? What then?
With internet covering the globe, it shouldn’t be that hard to track down ones soul mate – but where to start? You could join thousands of dating networks but what if your soul mate doesn’t actually have the internet – what then?
They say that life will bring together two souls that are meant to be. However there are many souls in this world alone. Where have their soul mates gone? What happened to them? Did they opt for 2nd best and decide to stick with it, giving up all hope of finding their one true love? And if by some miracle they finally did bump into ‘the one’, do they stick to the rule of ‘I have made my bed, I must lie in it’ or do they get out in a hideous manner?
Life and Love and Love and Life – There are many roads presented to us. Studious people can take themselves to a whole different level and take the path that will get them to the top. Creative people will possibly follow a few different twists and turns before hitting the right road. What if the road you feel you should be on hasn’t presented itself? Possibly it’s not the right time to be on that road, that’s why there are no ‘follow me’ signs. At other times, it just means that you need to go down the path that you are already on before you reach the crossroads leading you to your four choices. Only when you are where you should be in life, when you have made it on your own and you know how to handle difficult situations, only then does life start to lead you to your divine purpose.
Your divine purpose could be absolutely anything. But does it involve you taking on the task alone? That is the big question. Has the universe already mapped out your life purpose and if it has are you to take it on alone or does life have someone in mind to help you accomplish it? If you are truly to complete the task alone, it certainly doesn’t mean that you can’t find ‘the one’ along the way and when done, its time for love to find you.
Along life’s rocky road, look out for the signs that you have been missing. Have you had any re occurring dreams or thoughts that you keep dismissing? Ask yourself why you dismiss them without a thought. Put them all together to look at the big picture. Why do certain things seem to push you along one track instead of another? Do doors seem to open easily and seamlessly for you?
Once you are happy in your own life, then is the only time that someone should be able to walk in and share it with you. Its figuring yourself out first before letting someone else attempt to do so, that makes life and love and love and life so randomly odd to figure out.
But does it always need so much thought put into it? Hell no! If we are only here to occupy one body then we don’t have long. Don’t dismiss re occurring thoughts, follow your gut instinct in all things life and love. Sometimes let your heart rule your head even if it does end in tears.
Experience Life. Experience Love.
It may be the only one we have got.
Louise Bell ‘Life and Love and Love and Life’ Associated Content