Are you unlucky in love? Are you attracting the same kind of looser constantly? Are you simply not Attracting Men?
Have you just about decided to give up?
If this sounds like you – then I’ve got news for you. Brace yourself as this may come as a shock to the system – the reason that all the above is happening to you is because of you! Now don’t shoot the messenger for this revelation, I also had a small cardiac arrest when I came upon this realization!
Doomed to be forever alone?
Let me explain the above cardiac news so it will make a bit of sense.
You are probably thinking about the kind of man you do not wish to date, or the type of bloke that you do not wish to attract, or the kind of man that you do not wish to approach you, or the type of bloke that you do not wish to even make eye contact with.
You could be stressing that you are never going to meet your soul mate, or worry that you are going to be eternally alone. You may be thinking that you hate being single or that you never get asked out on a date.
Can you see the reoccurring pattern?
You’re thinking about the type you’re not wanting or dreading being alone.
Well and Good?
It’s actually not at all well and good to be consistently thinking about the type of man that you do not wish for, as what you are attracting is that exact kind of man that you do not wish for.
The reason? You may have heard it before – I’m here to bring it up again. It’s the ‘Law of Attraction’.
Simply put ‘thoughts become things’.
Yes it’s true; it’s all about what you are focusing on. If you are spending time and energy thinking, stressing, worrying and talking about the kind of man that you do not want to be with – that’s what vibration you are actually sending out to the universe (no need to throw your hands up in despair just yet!).
The sub conscious needs a shock. When you keep in though and feeling of happiness all the time (it can happen believe me – all it takes is practice!) this tricks the sub conscious into believing that you are enjoying every moment of life.
Allow your day dreams to run away with you. Allow you fantasies to take over for a few minutes whenever you can! If you are thinking about the big wedding – then imagine how it will feel to be walking down the isle looking into your soul mates eyes! If you want children – then imagine how it will feel when they are in a school play and you and your husband are there beaming with pride and cheering them on!
Can you see the pattern?
It’s important to focus on the outcome not the ‘how’ it will happen. Leave the ‘how’s’ to the law of attraction and the outcome will make its way to you. You have got to be crystal clear on what you want. You have got to map out all the details leaving nothing to the imagination.
Ask , Believe and Receive
Now you have the picture of what you absolutely want in your mind you are half way there, and you have taken this to the next level (well done you!). You have actually sent out an amazing vibration to the universe. So in effect, you have ‘asked’ the universe for what you want.
The universe will answer every time – no exception.
You now have to feel ready to receive what you have thought about most. If you are not ready guess what – you are delaying the time it takes to be delivered to you.
It will manifest every time. When you give more time and energy focusing on the positive outcome, it will manifest a lot sooner. The universe likes speed, so just go with the flow and let it happen.
Believe that you ‘deserve’ the outcome and ‘act’ as if it has already happened (you can do it!).
The How’s don’t matter
When you think and focus on what you truly want, your thoughts and feelings need to focus on the outcome as ‘present’ tense – as if it has already happened, not focusing on the ‘someday it will happen’. With the ‘somedays’ another vibration will be sent out and it’s not the one that you want! You don’t need to worry about how the universes will give it’s answer, this is not something that you have any power over, so just keep in mind the thoughts and feelings of the outcome.
Tip – Write down how happy and grateful you are now that you have your soul mate in your life. Write down with passion and vigor all the things you and your soul mate have been doing – maybe going on an exotic holiday or choosing a new couch and the fun that you have had doing all of this together! The more detail you include the better!
Be imaginative – include everything that you can see in your minds eye.
Don’t Get Negative – Ever
When negative thoughts about love come into your mind, recognize them for what they are and then dismiss them. Take a moment to re group and start thinking about how amazing it will feel walking along the beach hand in hand with the most amazing guy under the sun. Keep that image in your mind for as long as you can and bring that image back throughout the day. Think about how it would actually feel to be walking barefoot on the sand – imagine feeling the sand in-between your toes. Imagine the laughter – heck even laugh out loud!
Laughter will automatically put you into a more positive state, so as silly as it seems, what have you got to loose?
Make sure you are not asking yourself why your soul mate is not manifesting – as you will focus your energies on ‘why the soul mate is not manifesting’. Only focus on thinking and concentrating on the actual soul mate.
So be prepared as what you think about most will manifest and become reality!
When you start to have fun with this, you will feel like the luckiest person in the world. People will watch in amazement at how perfect and easy your life has become.
The man of your dreams is only a few concentrated thoughts away, so what are you waiting for?
Until you try – you will never know how much fun you are about to have!
Louise Bell ‘Not Attracting Men? Here’s Why!’ Associated Content