So you are attempting to keep the romance alive while your husband or boyfriend is in prison. Well, in order to do this, you will have to learn how to write erotic love letters. Since physical sex is not available and phone sex is limited, erotic writing is the way to go.
Keep it varied. When writing your erotic letters, it is okay to write in the same style or the same scenario several times in a row. Eventually, you will want to mix things up a bit. Write about sex outside, sex in the kitchen, sex in the living room, sex in a restaurant with everyone watching, sex at his desk at work, sex on the beach, sex on the floor in front of the fireplace, sex in an elevator, and so on. Just because you have never done it there before, have no intention of doing it there in the future, and may feel embarrassed about sending it with your name even attached, does not mean that you cannot engage in a little raunchy detail when it comes to writing letters.
Keep it nasty. Do not only mention kissing, fingers sliding in and out, humping or “lovemaking.” You will have to go into detail, and the detail will have to be rather X-rated. A good form to use is the following:
1. Set the scenario. He has just come home from work and has walked into the bedroom to find you in a specified position. The two of you are on vacation and get a little drunk at the mini-bar. He’s working late at the office and you show up to surprise him.
2. Describe both of you. When describing yourself, you will want to create a visual stimulation in his mind. You will describe your long sexy curls in your hair, that you are smiling at him, that you are wearing red stilettos, what you are wearing and how you take it off. When describing him, do not just describe him willy-nilly. Pick specific aspects about him which you particularly love, and leave the rest out. His strong arms encircle your waist. You straddle him and stare into his deep blue eyes. He forcibly pushes you up against the wall and looks into your eyes for a minute before he proceeds to ravage you. You know the strengths and excellent qualities of your man, so use them and let him know how much you enjoy them.
3. Sequence of events. In this part, you will need to not list random things that you want to do to him. You must start at the beginning of the act, or before it, and continue through. You can be as long and detailed as you want, or you can list the actions in a shorter version. However you do it, be sure to include your pleasure, your noises/gasps/moans, his size and the final climax.
Include a little eroticism in every letter. When you write your prisoner, be sure to always include a little eroticism in your letter. You do not have to make it a Harlequin romance every time. On shorter letters or when you don’t feel up for the writing, a simple “I wanna F*** you,” will do. Do not skimp on the love. Remember, men do not just view sex as pleasure, but as a form of intimacy and bonding. Including these little notes is like accepting who he is just as he is over and over. That makes him feel really good.
Keep it personal. When you write your erotic letters, do not get lost in the sexual nature and forget about the man himself. Keep it very personal and intimate between just the two of you. If your love letter could have been written to any guy, then it is not personal enough. Write it with elements that are just specifically for him. If he loves breasts and legs, focus on those portions of your body when you write to him. If he has a long hair fetish, make sure to include details about your hair every time. If he is really tough on the exterior but warm and generous and loving on the inside, then write to his warm and loving nature, and do not be intimidated by his tough exterior. Men will open up and allow themselves to be vulnerable as long as you have a reputation for NEVER shooting them down when they do. Watch yourself on this.
Keeping the romance alive when your husband or boyfriend is in prison can seem like an overwhelming task, or perhaps like it does not really matter. It does. Keep your flame burning bright and keep his wood hard, and he will be devoted to you like no one else.