Every woman has come in contact with a player, and many women have been fooled by one. Save yourself the heartache, and trouble of a player and listen to one of these four signs.
#1 He never takes you out
Sure staying at home watching a movie with some one is nice and all, but if it he never takes you out it should be a warning sign. He may not be taking you out because he doesn’t want other women to spot the two of you, especially if you live in a place where everyone knows everyone. If he truly is a player he doesn’t want to risk the other women he is fondling with, seeing the two of you. Next time the both of you make plans, suggest that the two of you go out to a restaurant, or a popular bar, and see how he reacts.
#2 When it comes to the phone, he’s hot and cold
He will call or text you several times one day, and then go MIA for days. He will tell you that he’s going to call you tomorrow after a date, but calls days later. When you try to call or text him he ignores you. When he finally does call or text you back, he will probably make up some type of excuse for his absence. What you have to realize is that it only takes 5 seconds to text message someone, these days you don’t have to make phone calls. Why does he do these things, you ask? The brutal truth is because he is too busy playing the same games with other women.
#3 Things are missing from his Facebook profile
If you wrote something on his wall, or tagged him in a picture, and they are completely gone the next day, this is a definite warning sign. Chances are, the other women he is seeing are his friends on Facebook. There for, he wants you hidden from them, and he wants them hidden from you. If he is doing things like this, confront him and see what he has to say.
#4 Gut feeling
If the thought, or site of him gives you a gut feeling, this should tell you something. When you have a gut feeling your brain is actually recollecting past experiences and feelings and putting two and two together. Many people who have had bad experiences say that prior to their bad experience they had a gut feeling. If you have a gut feeling about him, this is a warning sign.