In a study, 64% of women said they were satisfied the last time they had sex. While 85% of men thought their partner was satisfied when they had sex. With missionary as the number one position when having sex.
Intimacy in a relationship is important. When intimacy is lacking or gone all together, it can cause a serious issue in your relationship. According to a study done by Skinny Scoop, 81% of women would rather have a massage then have sex due to their busy life style. If you’re one of those women or a man in a relationship with one of those women before you completely loose your sexual connection, you need to find the time and make the time to be intimate
There are over 200 million acts of sex each day around the world.
62% of married women fantasize about having sex with someone else.
Couples trying to conceive a baby will have an average of 104 acts of sex before they conceive.
If your sex life is lacking there are things you can do to add back the spark and thrill to your sex life. With a little effort and a lot of fun, you can be enjoying a happy and satisfying sex life, again.
As much as you’ve heard it or read it, there are things and habits that directly affect your sex life. Leaving the bathroom door open was cute when the relationship was new, close the bathroom door and let the mystery build up. Let your partner miss seeing what they have and desire build. When you’re in the bedroom it’s time to disconnect and focus on sleeping or sex. Move the t.v., computer, cell phones and other gadgets out of the bedroom. Make the bedroom your place to focus on and be with your partner.
In a national study, women said they are attracted to a man’s smell more then their appearance or touch. While appearance and touch are important. It’s very important to smell good. Even if you’re partner likes to see you hot and sweaty, they want you smelling great while being intimate.
Be sure to touch your partner. Little kisses though the day, hand holding, hugs and other touches through the day can be fun foreplay time, when you’re both busy with work and family things. Instead of your partner thinking about what they have to do next, they’ll be thinking about what they want to do to you.
If you can’t be there to give kisses or touches through the day, don’t over look the sexy text or email. A sexy text will get the mind wondering until you can be together.
Put spark back in your sex life by skipping the routine. Have sex in a different location of the house, the chair in the hotel room, outside or somewhere other then the bedroom.
Make your bedroom about the two of you as a couple. This might mean adding pictures or fun times you’ve had together, comfy chairs to sit and talk, different bedding or curtains. Think about the two of you and where you’ve felt most romantic, capture that and put it in your bedroom. This will keep the memories fresh which will keep that romantic feeling alive.
Make time to take showers together. Being intimate is not always about having sex. There are times when touching and holding can be enough until you have more alone time later.
Don’t forget about the “quickie”. When the quality of time spent together is good, the quantity doesn’t matter.
After a long hard day, massages can be a fun way to set the mood. Take that massage one step further with some sexual touching, then let one thing lead to another. If you really want to please your partner and kick up the mood, use edible (lickable) lotions and body oils. A massage is hard to resist, add in some oils and lotions, who would say “no”?
Introduce new things into your intimate times, like sex toys. you might even find there are times when giving pleasure can be more satisfying then receiving pleasure.
And a tip for inside or outside the bedroom and intimate times. Be sure to use your partners name. This will focus them on you and keep them in the moment. Pet names are great for each other and having fun but when it comes down to being intimate, hold your partner in the moment by using their name. This is especially good for new relationships and relationships that have had some troubles, as the person knows you’re focused on them.
Life can be hectic and finding time to be intimate can be difficult. Make it a priority to be intimate with your partner. Not only will it lead to a satisfying sex life for both of you, it will strengthen your relationship.
Find the time every day to put your partner first. In time they will see your efforts and work with you, not only for a satisfying sex life but a strong and healthy relationship. You may be surprised at how strong your relationship will become.