Ladies, as we know, men are cheating left and right. Often, this happens to women who are successful and absolutely beautiful. Most men would damn near to die to be with them, but their men cheat on them. What is that about?
Here are some beautiful woman who have been cheated on in relationships: Halle Berry, Sandra Bullock, Elin Nordegren (Tiger Wood’s Ex-Wife), Christina Milian, Christy Brinkley, Elizabeth Hurley and Sienna Miller. Now Eva Longoria’s man, Tony Parker, was caught “sexting” and she’s filed for divorce, but I’m sure there is more to the story than that. How is he married to somebody that beautiful and having phone sex with another women? I’m confused. I realize that looks are not everything obviously, but sheesh!
That is just a short list. It happens all the time. Have you ever wondered what did these women did (or didn’t do) to make their men cheat? Maybe it has nothing to do with them. Could it be that these men would have cheated no matter what? Was there something they could have done to prevent it?
We’ll never know, but from what I’ve read, most men cheat because they are unsatisfied in a relationship in several ways and not just sexually, although sex is usually a key element when it come to infidelity. The odd thing is that the men of these absolutely beautiful, successful women cheat with women who do not even look as good as their mates and have often not achieved anything substanitial or note-worthy in life.
Look at the women that Tiger Woods cheated with. I mean I don’t know them personally obviously, but they are not what I would call the cream of the crop as far as quality of character goes and they are not exceptionally beautiful. Some were not even all that attractive. Tiger Wood’s wife, Elin, is gorgeous, smart and from what I’ve read, she is an excellent mother and was a supportive wife. She was not a fame-hound or publicity seeker nor was she gold-diggerish or flashy. She lived quietly and peacefully until her world was shattered by her husband’s infidelity and scandal.
Now we all know that if a man is going to cheat, then he is going to cheat and there is not a damn thing that can be done about it, but psychiatric studies of men who cheat have found that men often cheat because they do not feel that their sexual needs are being met. They may find their mate too sexually inhibited or uptight.
Every woman likes to think that she knows how to please her man sexually, but a lot of woman are finicky or picky when it comes to indulging their man’s desires. And yes, some men are a bit off the chain and may want to push the limits of sexuality. Some people may say “if you don’t do it, some other women will” and that may be true, but a woman should not have to compromise her integrity in the bedroom. Yet if she doesn’t, will the man seek it elsewhere?
Studies have shown that men cheat mostly because they feel emotionally neglected. He may think that his wife or woman only desires him out of some kind of necessity or maybe financial need. Maybe a man may feel that he is too far down on his woman’s list of priorities. A woman can have so much on her plate that it leaves very little time and energy for romancing, pampering and catering to a man, but you have to make time for your man and he also should do that same for you. It’s not just about sex. There are a hundred ways that you can show a man that you care, that you still find him attractive, that you appreciate him, that you desire him, that he is very important to you and means the world to you. A woman has to make a man feel not so much like a man (his own actions in life do that for him), but she must show him that he is HER man.
Of course, it’s not just famous men who cheat, but those are the ones we hear about mostly. I’m just wondering, because it’s happening so much now, what this cheating thing is all about. I don’t get it.