Writing the perfect love letter is harder than it may seem, to be able to portray your feelings onto paper is one of the hardest things to do. What you are trying to create is a letter that conveys your innermost feelings, things that are too hard for you to say. There are some definite no-no’s when writing love letters and they include; being casual, too light-hearted or openly erotic. That special someone needs to know the reasons why you are in love with them and not just get the idea that you like them.
One of the first things to take into consideration with your love letter is the presentation, this is often overlooked by a man as it might seem too openly sissy, it is important none the less. You must hand write your letter, never type, on nice neutral colored paper and preferably black or brown ink. Avoid using ink such as red, blue or greens as these have meanings other than love.
It is important to date your love letter as the recipient will want to keep it and reflect on the day that it was written. Start your letter with an informal introduction and use their first name, straight away this brings that special someone closer. Let them know why you are writing so they feel that you have been thinking about them before the letter was produced, this is going to show them that you are thinking about your love for them even when they are not around. The body of your letter should be full of complimentary reasons for why you are so perfectly matched, what you have in common, and how they complete your world.
Avoid using clichés like… “Your eyes make me melt” they are cheesy and just sound daft. It is important to include specific points in your love letter; when you first met, when you realized you where in love, special moments you have had together. This shows that you have thought deeply about your time together and remember the special moments, which don’t just pass you by as irrelevant. Finish your letter with a message of relief, which you are glad you managed to let them know your love for them. Don’t expect your fist letter to be the one you send, practice on scrap paper and perfect your work of art until it is heart rendering. Follow these simple love letter rules and you will have that special person in your arms forever.