Women do not like to be a man’s therapist. We are the one that wants to cry on your shoulder and not the other way around. Women look to men for advice and support. Here are five things men do that drive women away.
Untreated Mental Illness That Makes You Unstable
It is very rare to find a woman that will stick around with a mentally unstable man that refuses to seek help for untreated mental illness. Women understand Men that suffer from PTSD due to being in the military or something of that kind. We are not cruel people, but we can only handle so much before we walk out the door forever. When a man starts attacking us with shovels then we walk away forever.
You Make Us Your Psychiatrist
We didn’t go to medical school so therefore it can be difficult for us to comprehend your problems. You need to see a psychiatrist and not expect us to figure out things for you. We can not help you with something that we are not qualified to handle. We can spot possessive and controlling behavior a mile away in you when you reveal too much about yourself that scares us.
You Expect Us To Be Your Mother
We don’t want to tell you to eat your vegetables. If you do not care about health then why should we? It is pointless. If you don’t wash your clothes then you chose to wear dirty clothes. We are not one that feels that we should take care of a grown man unless we are married to you. We don’t like to play house while you want your cake as well served on a golden platter.
You Run To Your Mother Asking Advice About Your Romance Relationship
Women want a real man. Women do not want to be with someone that can’t make decisions without first talking to his mother. What kind of man can’t make choices on his own? One that hasn’t grown up yet. Women wonder how many times that you are going to run to your mother when you get married someday. Women want men that know how to deal with the mother and make his own decisions. If he still lives with his mother then run for the hills and never look back. Never date someone that lives with his mother if he has never moved out in his life nor held a job whatsoever.
Video Game Addiction
It is rare to find a woman that wants to stay with a video game addict. We will not tolerate being neglected for a video game. We would understand it better if we were being neglected for another woman, but a video game is just pathetic. Woman deserve someone that pays attention to them without being glued to a video game all the time.