Breaking up is hard to do. But sometimes it’s necessary. There are signs that your relationship has run it’s course. Recognizing these signs can make the difference between being the dumper or the dumpee. Don’t wait for him to change. Don’t wait for things to get better. If you see these signs in your relationship it may be time to dump your boyfriend.
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He’s Become The Invisible Man. If he can’t make time to see you, there’s a problem. In a healthy
relationship spending time together is a priority. If he has time for his friends, his family, his hobbies and everything under the sun, why can’t he have time for you? Because he doesn’t want to. If you’ve been dating and he’s suddenly disappeared, hardly even comes around or doesn’t make time for you, dump him and find someone who cherishes your time together. -
He’s A Secret Agent Man. Is he being secretive about his life? Does he hide what he does when he’s not with you? Does he lock his cell phone and laptop? Does he ignore his phone calls when you’re in the room or leave the room to text? If your suspicious of this type of behavior, you should be. These are signs that he’s up to no good. Don’t stick around and wait for the drama to unfold. Leave him and find someone who wants to share his life with you, not hide it.
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He’s Suddenly Celibate. While sex does decrease as a relationship mature, it doesn’t come to a screeching halt.If you didn’t have much of a sex life to begin with this isn’t really a problem. But if you’re both normally healthy horny people then there’s a serious issue. He’s not into you. Don’t stay in a loveless, lustless relationship. Find a man who’s passionate about being with you.
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He’s Forgetful, When It Comes To You. He forgets everything that’s important to you. Your birthday, anniversary, Valentine’s Day. You wonder how he can forget when you constantly remind him. It’s on the calendar. It’s in his phone. It’s on a post it not in his car. He doesn’t remember because he doesn’t care. If you were an important part of his life, he’d remember. You shouldn’t have to remind him. Yes there are times when your boyfriend may forget a special day but there are cards for that. If you don’t get a gift or at least a card then you should start looking for someone who cares.
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He’s A Loser. He makes you split the check on your dates or expects you to pay. But after all you do make more money than him. He does spend a lot of time at your house. But mainly because you have cable and usually have food in your refrigerator. He’s a mooch. He’s using your house as a hang out and a grocery store. He’s using you as a human ATM machine. Ditch time loser and find someone who appreciates you, not your stuff.
These are only a few signs that you need to dump your boyfriend. Use your intuition if something doesn’t feel right, there’s usually something wrong. Trust your own instincts. Don’t let anyone make you miserable just for the sake of being in a relationship. You can do bad all by yourself, you don’t need help for that. So if your relationship is broken, dump Mr. Wrong and find your Mr. Right.
