Often times when you think of crazy exes, you think of them being men. That is a vast misconception though. Men often deal with crazy girlfriends and sometimes even have stalkers. Men aren’t usually ones to talk about their relationship issues, which is the number one reason we often don’t associate men with having crazy girlfriends or stalkers. If you are unsure whether your current honey is crazy material, here are five signs that will tell you for sure.
She is constantly calling/texting you
While keeping in touch with you is great, the calling/texting excessively may be showing you a borderline obsession coming on. It is natural in relationships to send cutesy little texts (especially coming from a female) but when they start coming every five minutes throughout the day, it might be time to evaluate the situation.
She wants to know where you are all the time
Knowing your school schedule or work schedule is not such a big deal in a relationship, especially when you are trying to make plans for doing something. When your girlfriend is constantly asking where you are, it may become a problem though. If she wants to know where you are every minute of the day and won’t let up until you give her a minute by minute account for your actions during the day, it is time to look at the bigger picture.
She tries to seclude you from your friends
Having friends outside of your relationship is important. Whether its playing sports or having a video game night, you should be able to still have time with the guys. If your girlfriend is trying to cut out your friends, this is a huge warning sign. Secluding you and cutting off your friends, is the first step in her having you all to herself.
She is talking about marriage to soon
While dating is used to find that partner you want to spend the rest of your life with, talking about marriage in the few few months or even weeks is a huge red flag. At this point in your relationship (unless you were friends before) neither of you know one another. It is possible that she is trying to escape something and wants to use you as the escape route. Tread lightly around this one.
She gets pregnant right away
Yes, there are women that do this. Make sure you are really comfortable in knowing she is on birth control before you sleep with her. In fact, it is even better if she shows you the package of pills or you go with her to the doctor. If she ends up pregnant right away, chances are something just is not right.