Guys are always trying new ways to attract girls but sometimes what they are doing is anything but good. There are many things that turn girls on but the turn-offs are probably more important to know than the turn-ons. However, if you ask women what turns them off, there will be a lot of different answers floating around. The topic is subjective to say the least. These are some of things that were most commonly said when asked what turns women off.
Poor hygiene is obviously one of the biggest turn-offs for women. Going over the top is also a problem too. Girls generally aren’t attracted to guys who take longer to get dressed than they do. But, it is good to make somewhat of an effort. Bad breath is a HUGE turn-off so check yourself guys. You don’t want to be face-to-face with a girl who your breath is horrible!
Cologne is good but too much isn’t. We have all been around those guys that load themselves up with cologne so much it is actually hard to stand by them. Smelling good is awesome but too much is never good.
When men ignore women, they tend to want to go find attention elsewhere. Playing video games and doing other activities like that when a girl is present is a HUGE turn-off. Come on guys, we need attention here. If a woman feels like she is being ignored, trust me, she will seek attention elsewhere.
A guy with low self-esteem is never attractive. If it’s clear that you don’t feel that good about yourself, how can you expect a woman to find you attractive? Obvious jealousy ties into this one. It’s clear that your self esteem is low if you are always jealous of other men. Be comfortable in your own skin. If not, the girl will find someone who is.
Being cheap has been said to be a big turn-off. It’s all about quality and generally, the cheaper something is, the more likely it is to lack quality. Girls don’t like guys who always go for the budgets. Saving money is important but sometimes guys take it too far and that’s a big turn-off.
Acting like you know everything is a huge turn-off as well. It’s good to be knowledgeable. Intelligence is a turn-on but when a guy sits there and acts like he knows about something he really knows nothing about makes him look stupid. If you don’t know about something, don’t act like you do.
Lacking goals is a big turn-off. If somebody doesn’t have an idea about where they want their life to go why would a girl want to be with them? Being lazy and not trying to accomplish anything isn’t good for a relationship or for yourself. Have a plan and set goals. Nobody wants to be in a relationship with the loser.
Groping is a big turn-off for most women. With the exception of what I like to call “attention whores”, most normal girls don’t like when guys are always groping parts of their bodies, especially in public. There is a time and a place to be intimate but that’s not when other people are around. So keep your hands to yourself when you are around other people. Groping and grabbing make you seem insecure or desperate.
Holding old school beliefs about women are one of the biggest turn-offs ever. Times have changed guys. Women want to be more than house wives these days.
Stay clear of all of these turn-offs and you should be good :)