I guess if you are a reader of my articles, you are probably tired of me talking about race all the time. But I can’t help it. It intrigues me–especially this particular issue.
The more I listen to black women complain about black men, it just makes me wonder why these women haven’t considered dating another race. We always complain about black men not being there for their kids, not marrying us, and playing all kinds of other games we don’t like. Why haven’t we considered dating white men-or any other race for that matter?
I understand that all men play too much. All men act stupid, but black men are on a whole different level. Black men are worse than they think they are. They don’t know how bad they are because black women are so loyal. We refuse to leave them for anybody else, and this makes them think they are doing something right. They think they are stepping up to the plate because we keep sticking with them.
I don’t like the idea of people being loyal to people who aren’t loyal to them. Black men aren’t loyal to us. They’ll walk proudly with their white woman right in front of us. They aren’t worrying about our feelings or about loyalty. They are going out and dating who they want to date. And they should do that-and so should you.
You shouldn’t be bound by one race no more than they are. Haven’t you ever wondered what it’s like to date someone different? Haven’t you ever wondered just what else may be out there? Let’s face it. Black men offer the same thing over and over. I know there are good black men out there, but there are also good white men and Hispanic men out there. Why not try to find them, too?
I’m sick and tired of us waiting to find those two or three good black men. Most good black men don’t like good women anyways. They like women that yell in their face, take their money, and boss them around. They don’t like a woman to actually conduct herself as a real woman. They like big mouth women who can’t shut up and sit down.
Maybe the good women need to go where the good men are-and that’s outside the black community. I know I’m going to make people mad by saying that, but the truth always makes people mad.
I’m a feminist. I love all women. I think all women are goddesses. We deserve to have better men. We deserve to have a better life. We shouldn’t settle for crap, and I’m afraid that’s what a lot of black women are doing. That’s not what’s best for you. You deserve better, so why not get better? Being a single mom is not in your best interest. Being unmarried all your life is not in your best interest (unless you don’t want to get married). You deserve to have a great life. You shouldn’t have to settle for a bunch of sorry men just because all the good ones are taken.
Get out and find you a good white man, girl.
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