Breaking up is never an easy thing to do, but it is most necessary when there is no future for the two people in a relationship. This most likely happens because there is a breakdown in the communication or one of the partners is lying. When the trust is gone in a relationship it is important to break up and move on. This can be very hard to do, but it is possible to in fact, wash that person right out of your hair.
When you first break up it may be very lonely. You may be used to seeing the other person or at least talking to them on a regular basis. That is one of the very hardest things to get used to, is that you will no longer be communicating with them. Keep yourself very busy with work, with other friends and family and try not to dwell on it too much.
Another part of breaking up is getting rid of things that remind you of the other person. You might want to sell some of the gifts that they gave to you if it causes too much pain to look at them all the time. You might want to throw away pictures of the two of you and cards that they wrote to you. Having all the memories around is just too hard. If you don’t want to get rid of them, simply put them in a box and store them in your garage or another storage room where you will not look at them often.
Breaking up is difficult. One of the best things that you can do is get out there to meet someone else as soon as possible. Make sure that you are compatible with them and then get to know them and have fun. Don’t get too serious and refuse to be treated poorly. If you notice any of the same things happening with a new person that happened in the last relationship, make sure that you ask a lot of questions and find out what the problem is right from the beginning. When you do this, you minimize the chances of engaging in another terrible relationship.
Whether you are the one breaking up with someone else or you are the one that is being broken up with, it is a difficult time. It will be a sad time for many people to find out that a relationship did not work. It is all up to you what you learn from it. You can use the experience to understand people better and make sure that you find someone that you are more compatible with the next time. Keep in mind that there are many people out there and you can and will find someone much better for you.
When you break up it can be devastating. Make sure that you have a good support system of friends and family to help you get through it. You will want to still enjoy all the things that you used to, so get out and about and engage in all of life that you can.