Most scientists now say, when it comes to communication, men communicate even more with body language than they do with words. That’s why it’s easy to figure out if a guy likes you, just by watching his body language. Most women ignore body language from men but, in reality, if you teach yourself what to look for, you’ll never have to guess again – you’ll know with 100% certainty that he likes you or even that he’s in love with you.
Standing Straight, Shoulders Back – If a guy likes you, as soon as you appear in his vicinity, watch how he stands. If, as soon as he sees you, he stands up straighter, pushes his shoulders back and tries to make himself look bigger and more imposing – he likes you. By making himself look as big as possible, he’s showing you he’s a ‘real man’, who’s macho and healthy, and ready for producing offspring. Most men don’t even realize they’re doing it either, it’s a completely unconscious gesture, but a dead giveaway.
Crossed Legs Pointed At You – If you’re sitting in close proximity to a guy and he’s sitting with his legs crossed, look to see if the foot of the crossed leg is pointed at you. If it is, there’s a good chance he’s attracted to you as we automatically sit facing people we like and that pointing foot shows he likes you. If he also starts to run his hand absentmindedly along his thigh, while his foot is pointed at you and he’s talking – yep, he adores you.
Where Is His ‘Box’? – One of the funniest giveaways that a man is interested in you is what he does with his crotch. If he’s sitting down facing towards you and he likes you, he will automatically sit back and thrust his hips slightly forward. This posture shows off his ‘box’ to the best advantage and let’s you know what’s on offer, should you be interested. Again, a non-conscious body signal that he likes you, but funny to watch. Try not to laugh when you see it.
Does He Look at Your Mouth? – If, when you’re talking, he’s constantly looking at your mouth, he’s interested in you. Men will unconsciously watch your mouth while you’re talking if they’re sexually attracted to you. In fact, if he can’t take his eyes off your mouth, he could very well be in love with you.
How Close Is He? – A guy I used to like would often end up in the same elevator as me at work and would immediately turn his body towards mine and stand very close. Every time I was near him, it was as if we were in a crowded train as, no matter how much space there was, he would always be standing only a few inches away from me. Again, completely unconscious on his part, but highly enjoyed on mine.
How Straight Is His Tie? – Before I began dating my boyfriend, every time I would see him his hand would automatically go to his tie to straighten it. Just like women, guys like to look nice for the person they’re attracted to, and the best way to make sure for men, is to straighten their tie, which is oftensoon followed by a straightening of their hair.
Does He Copy Your Gestures? – At the last company I worked at, I figured out a guy I worked with was interested in me by how much he would copy my gestures. If I sat with my elbow on the table, 30 seconds later, his would move there. If I crossed my legs, his would soon follow and, leaning back in my chair would cause an almost instant rearrangement of his body to be line with mine. It got to a point where I would be constantly moving, just for the delight of seeing his body follow mine just seconds later.
Like many other body language signs, when a guy copies the gestures or body language you’re exhibiting, he usually doesn’t realize he’s doing it. It’s just that he feels so in sync with you, his body is simply following your lead.
If you like a guy but you’re not sure if he likes you, watch his body language. Once you learn what to look for, it’s incredibly fun to watch the body of the man you like giving off signals that are so obvious, it’s surprising he doesn’t realize he’s doing it himself.