For a lot of women, they’ll see a cute guy across a crowded room and that’s where it ends. He won’t come over, he won’t talk to them and, at the end of the evening, they leave knowing full well they’ll never see him again. But it doesn’t have to be that way. The next time you see a cute guy and want him to talk to you, there are several things you can do to make sure he does. After all, guys like to come over and talk to a woman but they need to see certain signals of interest first.
Make Eye Contact – The very first thing you must do to get a guy to come over and talk to you is to make eye contact with him. If he’s looking over and you’re doing nothing but looking away, that’s signaling to him you have no interest so, no, he’s not going to come and talk to you. Guys like some encouragement. So, the next time you see a guy who’s cute and definitely your type, look over and keep looking until he makes eye contact. Then, smile encouragingly then look away. If they’re single and looking, most guys will head on over within a minute or two after. Simple, eh?
Do The ‘Look, Look Down, Look Back, Look Away, Smile’ Routine – One of the biggest attractions to any guy is the, what I call, the ‘look, look down, look back, look away and smile’ routine. It’s easy to do and it’s almost always a surefire way to get a guy to come over and talk to you.
When you first notice a cute guy, look over. When he notices you, make eye contact, then look away and look down. Three seconds and look back again, make eye contact again. Look away and smile”. That’s it.
There’s nothing more attractive to a guy than seeing a woman across a room who not only looks at him once, but looks at him again, then smiles. He’ll be on his way over faster than he can swallow a mouthful of his pint of beer.
Don’t Sit Surrounded by Friends – If you go out for the evening in a big crowd while hoping to meet a new guy, you probably never will., By being out with a huge group of people, you’re already sending out signals you’re not interested in meeting anyone else. Plus, even if you do see an interesting looking guy, if you’re surrounded by ten friends, all laughing, hooting and having a good time, hardly any guy on the planet is going to brave that group to come over and talk to you.
Instead, make sure to go out with only one friend and look available, as just about every guy will brave the possible scorn of one friend to come and talk to you. He just won’t run the gauntlet of ten.
Look Available – So many women seem to think if they sit there looking aloof and unattainable, guys will be knocking each other down to come and talk to them. Not true. For 99.9% of men, if you look like you’re too good for everyone and as though you’d rather not have anyone come over to talk to you, surprise, they won’t.
When you get there, first of all, relax. Look like you’re having a good time and happy to be there. Then smile and look around the room. Just by relaxing and smiling and scanning the room, your body will automatically start to give off signals that you’re an approachable person and that’s when men will approach you.
To get a guy to come over and talk to you is actually simple. It involves nothing more than smiling, looking relaxed and happy to be there, making eye contact and being available for conversation. If you can alter your body language to make you look like that – you’re already halfway towards having every cute, available guy in the room plucking up courage to head on over and start up a chat.