There are many things that you can do to spice up sex with your wife and increase her sex drive. Everyone thinks sexual desire in women is 90% in their minds and 10% physical. Just touching and stroking is not going to be enough to arouse her desires if she is not interested. If you want to spice up sex with your wife, you will need to go through her mind.
Start with her mind. Compliment your wife on how good she looks as often as possible. Tell her she looks like she lost weight. Your compliments must be sincere. You can also whisper sweet nothings in her ear through out the day or leave her love notes to find in her purse, desk or other place that you know she will find it. Spice up sex with your wife and keep your marriage healthy and happy for years to come.
Buy her some sexy lingerie. Pick something out that you like and buy it in a size smaller than you think your wife wears. There is nothing more insulting to a woman than receiving clothing in a size larger than they wear. It makes them think that they look heavier than they are. If you do not know her exact size, then buy something a size smaller than you think she wears. Wrap it up as a gift along with some other gifts that she may enjoy such as flowers, chocolates, perfume or another gift that you know she wants.
Create her favorite date night. Plan a date night that includes babysitting for the children, dinner, drinks, dancing and any other activity that your wife enjoys. Make sure that the two of you have plenty of private time together with no risk of interruptions. Spend time listening to your wife and engaging in conversations that she enjoys. You will notice that it will spice up sex in the bedroom.
Add some fun toys to your evening. Surprise your wife with some fun sex toys in the bedroom. Do not buy anything that will shock or scare her. if you do not think she will be interested in sex toys or adult videos, you may want to start with some romantic movies or soft porn. Movies such as Dirty Dancing and Grease may turn your wife on more than you think and spice up sex tonight.
Try a medical remedy. If other remedies have been tried with no success, you may want to speak to your doctor about hormone testosterone therapy treatments for women which have been shown to be highly effective in boosting the sex drive in women according to the Mayo Clinic. Knowing how to spice up sex with your wife will change your life for the better.