The past few weeks have been interesting when talking to women about sex. One of the BIG topics is: toys. Adult toy talk is always interesting because it brings up so many emotions in women, good and bad. Where do you stand on this? Some women can’t get enough of toys, but act shy when talking about them, then there are the women who are terrified of them mainly because it seems like they do not have the right information about toys. There are adult toys for all the senses which can unleash feelings in your body that you have never thought possible.
Not that toys will be for everyone, because some people like to keep it simple when it comes to making love. They think if it ain’t broke don’t fix it. However toys can add a new spark and bring out some delightful things during boudoir playtime.
My goal is the help women understand that toys are an option, a wonderful option when used correctly. There is nothing to fear about toys. You don’t have to feel like a major freak if you use toys. They are there to enhance you experience whether you are single or with someone.
Women friendly adult toy stores have popped up all over the county or you can order great stuff online. You can even get toys from me in my Luscious Life shop (https://shopopensky.com/thelusciouslife). I love helping a women make sure she gets the right instrument of pleasure, your pleasure is also mine.
Get toys that you are comfortable with, though it is good to push your limits a little. Pushing those limits when you have a partner that you trust is like magic when you try something and stumble upon the fact that you really really enjoy it.
Remember to use body safe products. When I say this, I mean use products and toys that are green. Unfortunately toys are not FDA regulated which means there are a lot of harmful products out there made out of things no so good for the body. While you spend a little more for the safe toys, they last a long time and a healthy choice for the body.
If you are single, pick out on a hot new gadget on the market for the spot you want to focus on. Every day there is something new and fabulous coming out on the market. The toys being made now are like pieces of art. If you are in a couple get something that you both can enjoy. Now they are making more toys for couples, so you both can get something out of the deal.
Last but not least make sure you great a good lube. Find a lube that is made out of green materials and not packed with toxic ingredients. One of my favorite lubes is Aloe Cadabra which is 95% aloe vera based, so natural it is food grade!
