Five Steps to Keep Your Sex Life Alive as a Busy Adult
Step 1: Look out for Time Wasters and Time Savers
-Skip 30 minutes of TV and/or Internet time a sex instead. After three months of exchanging TV/Internet-time for sex, you won’t even remember the name of your favorite show.
-Axe certain chores. Do you really need to dust every day? Is it possible to do grocery shopping twice a month instead of four times? Save that time for sex.
-Pay your friend, relatives, children a few bucks to do your chores or run some errands. A few minutes here and there adds up to more time for sex.
Step 2: Schedule Sex into Your Weekly Routine
-Schedule sex into your schedule (along with your partner), just like you would any other appointment.
-Schedule sex before you schedule any other appointment.
-Always schedule a make-up day for sex.
Step 3: Prepare for Sex
-Write down the psychological and physical benefits of sex and post them where you can see them every day.
-Have your partner record an erotic poem or story, in their own voice and listen to it every day.
-Take a picture of your partner in a sexy negligee, or their birthday suit, and keep it hidden where you can peek at it several times a day.
Step 4: Employ Tricks for Speedy Sex
-You do not have to engage in actual intercourse to enjoy sex. Often times fellatio, cunnilingus, or manual stimulation will bring you to orgasm faster than intercourse.
-Whip out the sex toys to help speed you toward orgasm faster -but save the final moments of climax for your partner.
-Get up thirty minutes early and having sex first thing in the morning, when you actually have energy to speed the process up a bit.
Step 5: Employ Creative Sex Ideas
-Tired of giving your partner the same old gifts year after year? How about a “coupon book” full of 30-minute sex sessions? And, naturally, you would give such a gift wearing nothing but a bow.