When someone does something horrible to you, for example: Steals from you, lies to you, cheats on you, be it a friend, a lover or a business college, is it ever really worth taking revenge on purpose?
I generally I advise others not to take revenge on others whenever possible, nine times out f ten revengeful acts will come back to haunt one. Of course there is always the tenth time when it does not, like the woman in Birmingham England who put the details of her cheating husband on a public board in the middle of the bullring, then posting the details for all to see on MySpace, now that was actually really funny, but if it was worthwhile or not, due to the fact that it cost a lot of money to do could be considered debatable, but heck the money might well have been a worthwhile investment in her opinion, at any rate she had great fun doing this.
I remember my hubby saying he would hate to have been an ex of Lilly Allen the singer when listening to her record ‘Not Fair’ as this song is just a touch revengeful in nature, you can listen to it on youtube the link is in my links for this article. I love Lilly Allen she is very cute and makes me laugh.
Everybody gets ripped off at some time in there lives to one degree or another, but one should always remember that taking revenge can backfire, so it is always advisable to take stock before taking any action, anyway if truth be told revenge truly is a dish worth serving cold.
Many times in my life I have felt like being revengeful when someone has done me wrong, but if I have not been able to see a way that I could do something about it without hurting any innocent party I have rarely taken any revengeful action.
It is really up to your own conscience if you decide to take revenge on another or not, just remember to take into account if there are others who might be innocent of doing anyone any harm who could be hurt by any revengeful action you might decide to take, and consider what if any rebound there might be in consequence of those action. Sometimes revenge may be worthwhile to you only you can decide on this. God luck to you and yours either way.