As a radio host I have started creating YouTube videos to help with promotion and quite honestly, just to add a little fun to the show.
I answer emails from listeners and answer them with my own twist to the subject. Given the show is about sex, dating, relationships and all things dealing with matters of the heart and libido, some of the questions are pretty interesting and yes, sometimes even a bit comical.
Of course the usual emails came in when I asked my listeners to send their questions that could be answered in a few short minutes via a webcam. “Why are men afraid to commit?” Why do women all want to get married?” and most importantly “Does size matter?”
I began adding my videos with my answers which seemed brilliant to me and the videos have gotten a few hits. None quite even reaching fifty hits until I posted the video with the title “Does Size Matter?” It appears size does matter because that video has received over five hundred hits.
It does seem that when one hits a topic that so many refuse to talk about it does catch the attention of many. Does size really matter? According to the hits on that video it certainly does.
Just as I explained in the video, it truly does matter what size is right will be a debate for the ages. In talking with many women, no two have the same answer. Some say the larger the better and others say no way, too much size ruins the experience. Though one man probably answered the question better than I ever could have when I asked him if he felt his size was adequate. “It’s big enough to make me happy.” I would have to say in his case then it was exactly the right size.
Both men and women have perspective on size and each feels that they are either lacking or have too much; Weight, breast size, penis size, bank accounts and much more. Size matters in one way or another but depending on who you ask and where their preference may lie, bigger is not always better. While most women feel that the less they weigh better they are, many men are looking for women who have curves. They don’t want a woman who is too thin and not all men want women with breasts that meet them at the door five minutes before the woman actually arrives. I know one man who will not date large breasted women ever. He doesn’t find the large breasts appealing and therefore is not attracted to women who have them.
Of course, we all know men are dying to find out just how penis size matters. Well guys, just the same as a woman’s weight or breast size. Some women want them bigger, some want them smaller, some like them thicker and some don’t.
In the end, yes size matters but no, just because you don’t feel you have perfect dimensions in any area of your life does that mean that there isn’t someone or many someone’s out there who will find your size just right for them.
Quit stressing what society throws out there as average or normal and just accept yourself as you are and then find someone who wants you just as you are because in the end where size really matters is when it comes to your heart. At least from my perspective, this is the one time that bigger truly is and always will be better. Next time you meet that person that you suspect might be the man or woman of your dreams try flaunting the size of your heart and let the rest take care of itself.