Men can sometimes be hard to read. It’s hard to say what they like and what they don’t like. Though each individual is different, I have compiled a list of turn-ons that men have said to be the main things that attracts them to women in general. I have made this list from talking to a variety of men and researching surveys taken by men stating what turns them on to women.
Top turn-ons for Men:
1. A strong sense of self-esteem: Men have said that they like confident women. There is nothing more annoying to men than women who are always fishing for compliments. That shows a huge lack of self esteem. Men don’t want to have to reassure women that they are interesting and special. It is most attractive to men when the woman knows her worth. They like women who can think for themselves.
2. She loves her body: Men love women’s bodies, it’s no secret. However, it is hard for them to be turned on by a woman who doesn’t like her appearance. There is nothing more sexy to a man when a woman loves her body and is not afraid to show it off. That doesn’t mean dressing provocatively, it just means that they are comfortable in their own skin and are proud of their body.
3. Independence: We have all heard the songs. Men LOVE independent women. A woman with a sense of where she is going in life and owns the ability to care for herself absent a man is a huge turn-on. Men like to feel needed in certain circumstances but for the most part, they love a woman who can fend for herself.
4. Women who leave something to the imagination: Men actually don’t really like girls who dress provocatively. Yes, they would like to go home with them for the night because dressing that way says to them “EASY”. However, it has been proven that men like to be with women who leave certain parts of themselves to the imagination.
5. A woman who smells good: Perfume and lotion do have an effect on men whether they own up to it or not. In a private survey, men said that they love when a woman is wearing perfume.
6. A good sense of humor: Men love a woman they can joke around with. A good sense of humor is sexy!
7. A woman who isn’t afraid to talk dirty: Men love dirty talk. If you’re not shy about taking dirty, they will adore it!
8. An Adventurous side: Men love women who are willing to take risks. They love women who show a sense of adventure. It brings them excitement when they are with you.
9. Compliments: Men like to receive compliments too. They find it sexy when a woman complements them because they are used to always being the one to do it.
10. A woman who admits she loves sex: For generations women have been shy about sex. But the truth is, men love it when women talk about sex. Being shy never got anyone Mr. Perfect.
There you have it, some things that turn men on.