The world of romance is something we all want to be a part of, but it can be a tricky world to get into and it takes a lot of courage and determination at times. Sometimes it seems too overwhelming and impossible when you meet that special someone who catches your eye but seems so far out of your league. But, if you follow some tips, you can easily get the attention of someone you are interested in and maybe even pave the way to find love and be a part of the romantic world that you crave to be.
The first thing you have to do is make some initiation. If you never initiate, nothing will get done and nothing will get said. Now, making the first move is very sensitive and you have to make sure that you do not come on too strong and make sure that you make a good impression. Sometimes people do come on very strong and begin talking about marriage and commitment right away but you need to make sure that you stay very casual and very normal. Do not reveal all of the strange aspects of your character just yet, be cool and friendly and do not give your feelings away.
This can be done in many ways. You can call them, text them, write on their Facebook walls, send them an email, or just wave hello. Once you make the first move, allow them to respond. If they never do, you just have to move on, otherwise you will appear like a creep. You never want to appear that way. There is a phrase that says if you follow, they will flee, but if you flee, they will follow. That means, there is a chance that if you do move on, they will come after you if their interest was piqued. But, supposing that they do reply, as chances are they will, you can then take pains to know them.
You can ask simple questions at first, things about their interests and hobbies and likes and when they ask you in return start getting to know each other on the surface. Think of each other like an onion that needs to be peeled back slowly. Ask them personal questions only after you learn something about their surface nature. If you begin asking personal things right away, you will scare them away and they will not want to talk to you anymore.
Always be honest about who you are and what you are about. There is nothing more awful than giving false impressions or trying to be someone you are not. If you do that, the truth will come out later and the person will lose faith in you and your credibility will be shattered to useless pieces. You want to come off just as real and natural as you always will be. Don’ t try to impress them with any kind of impressions that you think they want to hear. Be yourself or be nothing at all. Honest is severely important for a lasting relationship and if you want this to last then you need to be honest and except honesty in return.
Keep the flirting classy and know what the person’ s limits are. Do not say raunchy things unless you know they are comfortable hearing it, because you might disturb them profusely if you do that.