Helping someone in need is a high that is something that no words can describe. Knowing that they have chosen you, to help with whatever task comes about is truly uplifting. Not to mention the fun we have while accomplishing this task that doesn’t even seem like a task. Feeling of happiness and knowing that whatever it was, you both worked together and they needed your help. At times they don’t just need it, they wanted you to help them get it done. That feeling is awesome for the lack of a better word.
Then there are those who ask if they can help you, but then it’s never good enough because they did things their own way and didn’t even consider how it would affect the feelings of others they asked. I don’t expect my suggestions to be used all the time. That is not realistic. However, if you don’t want to hear my suggestions, though I have more experience since I’ve lived longer or have gone through that situation, why ask me? If they do what they want to anyway, I feel my suggestion or help is a waste of time and not appreciated.
I can assure you though, this WILL NOT stop me from helping anyone who asks or needs it. If asked to help those who don’t take the suggestions or advice many times that I’m asked, don’t be surprised if I decide to give no suggestion or help. Still love you but ask someone who you will take advice from. That way we can both be satisfied.