Well I did it, I just told her I want to start trying to have a baby with her. How couldn’t I ? The look on her face when she asked. The look I knew I would get if I even hesitated, let alone told her I wasn’t ready. Maybe the best sex of my life after I said yes. All that behind me now, what really matters is I said YES! Oh well, it’s not that bad it’s gonna take awhile for her to get pregnant, and then nine months from then until the baby is actually here. I don’t have anything to worry about now, it’s all about lots of sex for now. Right? Maybe. Yes maybe, I remember thinking how great this will be for a while. I’m a man all I thought about was the sex, all the other stuff was way off in the future. Little did I know, how little sex had to do with making a baby. Yes you read that right. I’m not trying to scare you, but the reality is you might actually have sex less when your trying to have a baby. First, your wife, is probably on some form of birth control. She can’t just stop taking it and suddenly she’s pregnant. It will probably take a few months before she is able to even become pregnant.
And guess what, by stopping her birth control, her hormones are now a little out of wack. That’s a fun time! But at least there is all that great sex, right? Maybe, but not necessarily, after all why have sex now if she can’t get pregnant now. Here is what you, as a man, didn’t think about. It’s not necessarily about the pleasure any more, it’s about trying to make a baby. I hope I haven’t scared you, it does get better. You might actually get to skip what I just explained if it was you in charge of the birth control, probably the only benefit of using condoms in a trusting relationship. And quite frankly, if you can’t deal with your wife’s hormones being out of control for a few months, you’ll never be able to handle her and a baby. Ladies take note too, I feel the whole process you go through helps you to deal with all the issues that come with a baby.
So now all the sex right? Maybe. Hopefully your wife isn’t into all the only doing it when she is ovulating. This is where it becomes a job, not fun. In fact I knew a few men who almost lost their jobs, because their wife would call them at work and tell them it was time and they needed to come home now. Imagine going into your boss and telling him you needed to leave to go home and make a baby. I got the evil eye when I asked for time off to go to doctor’s appointments. Thank goodness my son was born on a weekend. Of course you could have my luck. I think I bumped into mine in the hall and next thing I knew she was pregnant. I truly hope you get to enjoy this part of the experience. I hope you get to have fun with your wife for a little while before she becomes pregnant. The one thing I can tell you, she will probably never love you more, and I mean true, deep love, than on the day she tells you she’s pregnant. You’ll know how she felt that day on the day she gives birth, trust me.