I can’t stress this enough, ladies please, and I am begging you to VALUE YOURSELF. I have witness too many women that pretend that they have self-respect, however, their behavior shows otherwise. Every time you put yourself in a position where you are being de-valued, that is an indication of low self-esteem. Many woman think that they can play the “players” game, only to be the one that gets hurt at the end. Many women think that being a gold-digger and having babies for whom ever just to survive on child support payments will get them rich quick, that is far from the truth, it only shows your bad character. The great news, it that you don’t have to be that weak, you can be strong in the Lord; you don’t have to sleep around to get a dollar, or sell your body and strip for fifty cents, that is of the devil. The devil goal in life is to kill, steal and destroy (John10:10), however, Jesus came to give you life, receive that instead.
Moreover, each time you do these things you are being destroyed. Understand to value yourself; you have to increase your self-esteem level. If you don’t love YOU the way you are now, all you are going to do is try to find someone or someway to create a value system that is based on false self-respect. A women that respect herself and value herself, does not have a PRICE TAG. No amount of money, jewelry or possessions can purchase her. When you value yourself, you will not allow any man-rich or poor to disrespect you, beat you, sleep with you and leave you, have babies with you and walk away. Because when a man take notice and see that you value yourself, even he won’t dare to do these things to you. Think highly of yourself ladies. Be strong and don’t submit to your weakness, instead conquer your weakness. Be strong, value yourself, and look up, God thinks highly of you. Why are you devaluing what God has already placed such a high value on?