There is a high percentage of men who disrespect women and it has been going on for many years. Why is this excepted in today’s society? Is it because a man feels a sense of superiority if a woman allows disrespect? Is it because a woman gives too much too soon? Is it because they feel women do not value their womanhood or they are not challenging enough for their male egos?
Nowadays, some men are clueless about how to treat a woman because they were not taught the concept of respect at an early age, and perhaps they believe women like to be treated this way. Some men believe women who require respect are looking for attention or that she is high maintenance, but what does a women have to do to get and earn a man’s respect? Get a grip my fellow men! Women require special attention because they are the epiphany of love and affection. They are the bone in your back, so bow down to your queen and let her know she is your strength and without her you are not complete. Although women are delicate it’s OK to bond with her because she is the glue that can hold you together. Without her there is no love or solace.
From a biblical aspect, God made man to honor, love, and respect a WOMAN! When Adam told God he was lonely, God respected him enough to supply him with a loving and passionate woman. A woman is a man’s best friend who gives him strength, and when he finds one he must respect her wholeheartedly! Some men confuse strength with manipulation but everything that glitters is not gold. Glitter doesn’t sparkle long after its worn, it just manifest itself as fake. Once the glitter is gone, what’s left. Disrespect! So ditch the glitter, light that sparkle and let it burn because sparkles bring love and respect that last a lifetime!
The bottom line is women want to be treated with RESPECT, and it’s time for men to step up to the plate and stop hitting their head on a stupid rock. Think about how your grandmother and great grandmother were treated. Think about how you would like your daughter or your sister to be treated. Better yet, think about how you would want men to treat your mother, and let God help you rise from the prison of disrespect to respect! Stop repeating the same painful patterns over and over again. Bury the past and the deep wounds that have contaminated and sabotaged your efforts to respect your woman. Bury that generational curse that caused pain, shame, disappointment and frustration to women and educate yourself on how to respect her. Read books, attend seminars so you are not ignorant to the truth, and then heal naturally so you can reconnect and have a deep, committed and sustained relationship with your woman because she is a WOMAN and she deserves RESPECT!
When you learn to transform your past and rediscover yourself, you can build a foundation for love, and this is the focus of Respect!